Why does it matter?

You know what I am getting sick and tired of hearing about? When am I going to start a family? When are you and your wife going to have a baby? You know when? WHEN WE ARE READY!

What is it with this constant feeling that the world isn't crowded enough and if you're married it automatically means that you and your spouse should conceive a child on the honeymoon? My wife and I have been married less than a year and we still get the attack that we don't have a child yet or aren't pregnant yet. We will get there people, we just like the relax and enjoy being married right now. It's no ones business anyways.

Why does it matter? It makes no sense to me why there are so many outsiders who think that they have the right to tell others how they should live their own lives. Like I don't know how to live my own life?! It doesn't matter when we start our family.

I have a friend, single, won't give away their identity or gender who made some remarks recently to my wife about the fact that we are not pregnant yet after being married for nine months. It really took all the patience I could muster not to tell this person off. This person has a hard enough time balancing their own relationships and it really ticks me off that they think they know our lives better than their own. I am tired of this sort of thing happening to us and to others.

People, work on yourselves before you try to fix someone else... Also check to see if there is something that needs fixing. I am excited for the day my wife and I have our two children. Already got the names picked out. It will be a rewarding time in my life. Until then, leave me alone. We will get there when all the things in our life are where they are supposed to be.

The next time someone comes up to you and tells you how to live your life better than you can do it yourself, simply smile politely and walk away, saying nothing. It's not any one's business but your own.

If they keep it up... simply put your finger up and say.... shhhhhhhhhhhhh

People... live your own lives and stop living through someone else's. It really doesn't matter that much to you, does it?

Until next time
P