Say what you mean

I have noticed a lot lately, whether it is in the movies, on TV, in real life, or in those horrendous campaign ads, that people never really say what they mean. It's almost like they are hiding their intentions or hiding what they truly feel. Why is it so hard to just say what you mean?

Tell me if this sounds familiar to you...

A guy. Likes a girl. Wants to be with this girl. Girl has no idea guy likes him. Guy refuses to tell girl how he feels. Girl dates a loser because guy won't just be honest and say what he feels.

I think that is the basis for almost every single teen drama of the 80s, 90s, and current, or any other romantic comedy. The formula needs to change. It's sending the wrong message to the men and women out there that telling someone how you feel should be like this long drawn out process.

I say, if you feel it, and the opportunity is there, say it. Do it. Stop being afraid to be real, to be honest, and if it happens, be happy. This is your chance to be happy, take it.

This is my challenge to you out there. Take a risk and today, well extend it to Friday, say what you mean, this week. Don't hide it, say it. Be honest. Don't be mean or cruel, but be honest. Say what's on your heart. If you're in love with a man or woman, say it. Let them know. Again, don't ruin an already existing relationship that is happy, but, if you have the opportunity, take it, seize it, live it.

Don't let your life be like a movie, where you're waiting, and waiting, and waiting, and hoping for some hollywood happy ending, just do it. Make your own ending. Live the life you always dreamed of now, there's no reason to wait.

Until next time
P